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Mental Health Grand Rounds - Shared screen with speaker view
Carletta Morgan
28:09
It is hard to make me angry, but when I do get angry, everything you ever did to aggravate for the past however many years . . . it all comes out.
Theresa Williams
29:16
I feel you! I was raised to take care of other people because I had a disabled brother. I was always helping. I don't speak up when things happen, but I sure do add them to the ledger.
Alexandra Cromwell-Whitt
29:17
Guilty
Donnie Lindsey
30:38
One of the most profound things I learned was to attack the issue/offense/action and not the other person
Jaylynn Harris
39:52
As a caretaker for a parent with dementia, I learned to listen even though its the same memory being spoken over and over. Using your listening skills in whatever conversation can prevent anger and frustration for you both.
sandra Mcgadney
41:32
Good point Jaylynn. When I was doing home health, I would always tell the family that.
Donnie Lindsey
42:37
Men being aware of the way we take up space in arguments (privilege) is actually very helpful and necessary. We must always be aware of power dynamics when conflict arises.
Regina Ellis Smith
43:26
This is a very helpful topic
Theresa Williams
46:43
One thing that helps me, if I can't address anything right away is to write down my perception of what happened. If I write it down, I can distance myself.
Alexandra Cromwell-Whitt
52:04
Great Point!
Carletta Morgan
52:09
I have a close friend with whom I disagree on a very serious topic. We have listened to each other without trying to change the other person's opinion, but we have developed a respect for each others opinion. And it is a topic that we don't bring up.
Donnie Lindsey
53:24
That’s a great strategy and suggestion, Theresa!
Sharon Chestnut
01:03:25
Great tip!
Alexandra Cromwell-Whitt
01:03:53
Language is Very important.
Bailee Perry
01:05:10
This is excellent advice. What are your thoughts on communicating with known high-conflict individuals (those who always have the last word, have to be right, you're always wrong, etc.)? Does this approach work?
Becky Smith
01:07:59
I tell my clients that you can be right or you can be in relationship.
Sharon Chestnut
01:08:03
Good question.
Theresa Williams
01:09:03
Thank you, sometimes those conflicts do reach a place where you have to just take care of yourself.
Carla Phelan-King
01:09:05
Come to the realty that you can not change it
Alexandra Cromwell-Whitt
01:10:37
Self-Care definitely!
Donnie Lindsey
01:13:06
Great presentation! You did a good job!
Sharon Chestnut
01:13:10
Great presentation!